I first heard of this book about a year ago, and in finally getting it in my hands, I’m so grateful for Heart Camp–that God deliberately holds things for a reason. That he only does things in perfect timing. Had I read this a year ago, I don’t think the real healing and power of the words found in this book would have had such an impact. Heck. Six months ago they wouldn’t have had the impact they had. 

There are some books we read that provide practical knowledge often in the form of systems and yet others that seem to shatter our ideas and speak directly to the heart like a friend. I dare say that this book was a little of both, yet the system that Donald Miller writes of here is one of grace and experience and humility. He challenges us to see beyond our behaviors in life to look at our foundation. He challenges us to want to build and restore from a place of restoration. He challenges us to be a part of a bigger story that is more about being a part of the team and less about getting ahead and being successful in our own right, for our own name. 

Scary Close is a story about connection. Its a book about how one guy found restoration for himself and in turn found a greater and deeper level of success in his life. Its a story about redemption, and whether he writes about it in a low-key-Christian-writer way, Scary Close is a picture of the gospel, and how Christ gives us the opportunity to heal, and to build with each other what we can never build alone. Its a story about seeking unity beyond just looking good and getting things done, and its really challenged my heart. 

It has been a while since I read a book that simultaneously aired my dirty laundry and with grace offered a place to change. (Y’know, other than the bible, which points to what I’m saying here). If you’re in a place, like me, that is tired of shallow, codependent, empty relationships, I would say pick this book up. If you’re ready to be challenged, yet still want an easy read, pick this book up (I read it in two weeks and can’t wait to read it again). 

The words of a friend always speak deeper than that of strangers, and that’s Scary Close.