1. BE ON GUARD.
As you go through your day, there will always be that certain thing that pushes your buttons and sends you off the deep end. Identifying the things that do this whether they are big or small.
You may not necessarily be able to avoid theses situations, but if you know your tendency to overact when presented with these situations, you can prepare yourself to respond in a calm manner. By choosing to be “on guard,” you can plan how you’ll respond and ask God to help you have the right response.
2. STAND FIRM IN THE FAITH.
Root yourself in Love by spending time with Him through the Word.
By starting your day with your attention on God through time spent reading your Bible will give your day a more positive outlook and help you stand firm in the faith when things start to bother you. I’m not saying you need to have an elaborate Bible study, but putting in at little bit of time to get your heart and mind right with God is one way to stand firm in the faith.
3. BE COURAGEOUS. BE STRONG.
The world is filled with temptations and obstacles ready to tear us down. Sometimes those challenges hit us out of nowhere and other times they can be foreseen. Being courageous and strong in the Lord is how we are instructed to face the difficult circumstances (including difficult people), that cross our paths. We don’t need to run away or hide from these situations. Nor do we need to face them with a bitter heart and tongue. We simply need to face them with the courage and strength God gives us, and by doing so, we will be able to respond in the native tongue of love.
Mastering these three steps is not a fail-proof guarantee that we will do everything in love at all times, but it will guide us in that direction. There are still going to those moments that we fail to act and respond in love, but if we keep these instructions from 1 Corinthians in mind, we’ll better prepared to love others.
