It actually isn’t as bad as it sounds, surprisingly. The tricky part is more the marital decisions. Who’s going shopping, what’s for dinner and who’s making it, and if I eat one more p.b. n j I’m gonna barf, who’s on clean up duty, who left the dirty pan on the stove, where’s the laundry detergent (which turned out the be fabric softener, my clothes may not be “clean” but they smell good!) and who hid the napkins, do we have any clean rags, we’re out of drinking water, and now were out of water totally, hey are you done in the bathroom yet and so much more.
We are a part of the body of Christ and we are here to make that body grow. To bring love to women who look for it in the arms of one man after another. To play with and love on children who don’t have parents to hug them and love them. To do construction on houses and buildings that are falling apart. To let those we talk to know that they are so very loved by the creator of the universe and that He is yearning to have a relationship with them!
That’s what it’s all about! That is why we are here living in community. This is why I am dying to myself more and more each day. This is why I don’t lose my mind when we run out of toilet paper, and though I don’t always like every one 100% of the time, I still love them, and am 100% willing to talk it 
out . I am so thankful for every brother and sister, spouse hehe, that I am living with; each one brings something different to the table. I look forward to the things we will do together for Gods kingdom, and the growth within ourselves and amongst each other.
Romans 15:2, 5-6
5 May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus, 6so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the Gos and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
