I think “judgement” as we define it in any connotation is a misunderstanding of God. He is love. The more He points us to live in Him (love) the more love He is showing us. The “judgement,” we feel and identify, and even praise or scorn, is still only meant to love in ways we cannot map, calculate, or even ever fully understand, because we are not God. It is simply a loving push, an eager,kind urgency, from the one who knows all, loves all, and loves YOU. The reaction to judgement, and even labeling it in such pretenses is just another love push, never done to judge, but simply to motivate to love with love in a way which actually stimulates us to react. That astringent stings a wound does not negate, alter, or pervert its cleansing and beneficial effects. Yes, it stings to be “judged,” but the pain isn’t caused by God, but rather by His active and tangible battle with your wound or affliction.
 
“Blows and wounds cleanse away evil, and beatings purge the innermost being.” Proverbs 20:31