Pastor James is a powerful man!
A loving husband, caring father, inspiring pastor, dedicated principal and driven man of God. Anywhere and everywhere we went he would take time to introduce us as his family to anyone he knew…which was everyone. He notices people and truly cares. To him, everyone is a friend. He would return home in the evenings eager to hear of our day’s events. He would join us for dinner and want to hear stories and laugh with us, sit around for coffee or tea and tell stories of his own. He was a father figure, not just a contact.
He has many aspirations and lives each day to become one step closer to achieving those God has put in his heart. Pastor has a love for his country and even plans to become the President of Rwanda in the next 15 years.
One of my favorite moments with Pastor was after a day volunteering at the school when he asked us to step into his office. This was simply the corner of the one room church where he had set up a desk near the window. The seven of us joined Pastor in his office unsure of the context of this meeting. “What are some pointers?” “How can I become better?” Pastor wanted feedback from us. He longs for growth and humbly asked us, a random bunch of young adults, for advice. It took a minute or so for any of us to speak up, but we were able to encourage Pastor and give a few suggestions. I tried to recall my past experience in the political world from working in D.C. and even some of the Disney magic learned last spring. I told him to avoid pointing. It can come off as rude or condescending. When needing to direct people an open palm or two fingers is much more acceptable. (I feel silly even writing this but it is true and next time you visit Disney take time to notice the cast members; none should be pointing.) After a good bit of discussion, our meeting came to a close and the team headed back to the house for lunch while Pastor took another meeting with a parent of one of his students.
The following Sunday, Pastor James was in front of the church addressing the congregation. He stuck his finger out to point and midway switched to an open palm, which he waved to the side. ( I’m not sure if you get the picture … ask once I’m home and I’ll show you ☺ ) This put a huge smile on my face. It was something so small, but he remembered and took it to heart. He not only humbled himself to ask for advice, but then really acted on it. He desired to improve and grow in whatever way possible.
Geena, my team leader, often goes on and on about this unique experience we have on The World Race. Living in such a close community, literally spending all our time together, we see the areas in which one another could improve. My team has a front row seat, IMAX, 3D view of me and my daily actions. I cannot hide. This is the time to humble myself and ask how can I grow. Pastor James realized his month with us was a chance for him to do the same.
My question for you is: who has that IMAX view of your life? Who do you work, live, eat, play and relax with? Have you ever asked them how you could improve?
You have dreams and aspirations. Don’t miss a chance to be challenged from those around you. Take every moment to grow into the person God intends for you to become!
