I’ve been waiting my entire life to meet you and spend the rest of our lives together. To be your wife. To fall in love with you. I want to experience life with you, and do ministry alongside you and with you. To plan a wedding. To have children and to adopt children into our family. And someday, I know. I will have that chance. That it’ll turn to reality. Until that day, I will be patiently and sometimes not so patiently to discover the man you are.
By the grace of God I am becoming more strong, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. We will go through some challenging times. I am not ready for the emotionally, spiritually, and financial part of marriage. God is preparing me and you for that.
I want you to be my spiritual leader and to consult God in all circumstances. I will submit to you, as I would the Lord (Ephesians 5:22). Love me the way Christ loved the church, I will have a listening ear to hear your beautiful words,
I may not have met you yet or I already have but you must know my heart belongs to The Lord, He is faithful and He’s the only one I trust fully because He knows what He’s doing with me and what I’m going through within my life. My Lord is there for me. He won’t fail me.
I’m saving my heart for you.
The thought of you excites me to my core, I so want you to seek God more than I want you to seek me, I want you to teach me and point me to Christ. Let us pray together, read the bible together and grow up our family to serve The Lord and love our children. Just know that I will love God more than you. I am excited to see your loving eyes, your handsome smile, to be in the strong arms that will protect me, and hear the beautiful word of God, to praise God and sing to him and give him his glory, to lay down next to you every night, read scripture with me and pray with me when I can’t seem to fall asleep.
I will wait patiently for you.
God is truly showing me that even when I fall in love with a wonderful, Godly man that follows the Lord so passionately, he is still human, enslaved to flesh. He will not be “my everything”. He can’t be, it’s not possible. He’s not perfect. He will let me down at times, he will fail, he will have trials, he will not romance me everyday, he will not fulfill my every hearts desire or dream. We are human, yet I felt that if he followed the Lord he would be perfect. Negative, we live in a decayed world. There’s nothing perfect in this world. No matter how much we want this fairytale love story to become reality. There’s times where its not going to be easy but it will always be so worth it.
Jesus is the most perfect husband.
I am truly blessed to say that I am finding “my everything.” A man that fulfills my every desire, leads me spiritually everyday, loves me through what ever I am going through, loves me at my worse, through sickness and heath, he romances me everyday, he meets me where I’m at, he meets all my emotional needs, and he forgives and loves me unconditionally. His name is JESUS! He is the relationship that everyone craves for and longs to have, the perfect husband. He pursues me everyday. He can give me the desires of my heart, because he knows everything about me. He KNOWS me better than anyone. He wants to bless me, take care of me when life is rough and crumbling to the ground.
With Him anything is possible!
God has told me “Seek me first”
So when that day comes, when I marry a man of the Lord, I will be able to walk confidently in my relationship with Jesus first. Christ will still be the center of my life and I will not put unfair or impossible expectations on my husband. The Lord will always come first and I pray my husband’s relationship with God will come before me.
The Lord your Maker is your husband, the Lord Almighty is his name. Isaiah 54:5
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A Man After God’s Heart:
Shows spiritual wisdom and maturity
Reads the Bible daily
A spiritual leader in our marriage
Love’s God more than he loves me
We Share The Same Dreams:
Desire to Live Internationally
Heart for social justice and the motherless
Wants to live a life of welcoming people into our home
