Love, Sex, and the beauty of life
Life is a beautiful journey. Let’s talk about love. Love and being loved is a major part of life. Love is very much a live and anything not done in love is failure. Love will never fail you. There are different types of love but all revolve around what? Can anybody really define love? It’s warm, it’s overwhelming, it‘s beautiful, but those are all just adjectives describing what? What is Love? If your a Christ follower you know love because you found it. It is so beautiful! Jesus in John 13 is “love defined”. C’mon! “I will know your my disciples based on how you love each other.” God loves us and we need to open our eyes! Air in our lungs, gas in our car, beer in the fridge. C’mon! Give that guy some praise! The sky, nature, light it’s all here and it’s all good. It’s proof that he loves us. He sent down his only son with a plan to die and take us with him to heaven! Love like you loving your kids, your dog, your mom. You should be loving everyone! They deserve it even when you don’t feel like they do. Love has no limits and is dangerous when demonstrated. I’ll never forget being a CNA in high school at a nursing home and my favorite resident saw me and said to me “you look much better well your smiling”. Love is a smile, it’s the little things. I’ll take that with me everywhere I go throughout this life. It’s loving each other and having quality relationships. Brotherhood and sisterhood, I’ve never been so close to my brothers on my squad. It’s literally so beautiful. Ways of love are endless. Encouraging words, listening, body language, random acts of kindness. A smile can literally echo and be contagious. C’mon! Life comes with struggle and God can drag you through the depths and break you to show you even more! More even better! A new way just push through. C’mon love. It’s not easy, it’s love! Loving someone is so beautiful. In the Bible you see lots of contradictions like “You should carry everyone’s burdens” and later say “Everyone should carry their own burdens” like what? It make so much sense. The Bible’s message is so clear and I can feel it. It’s a live! It can be tied to all parts of life. You cannot have another human “compete you”. No way a human can carry one another’s burdens. No way, I’m sure every married couple can attest to some type of adversary and doubt. You can have what seems to be a “American Dream” or what is to be a perfect life. Do you really? Really think about it? C’mon. Take it to him. A marriage is covenant between two to make one. God has such a high view on sex. The anatomy and physiology, with the intended purpose of sex being so pure and beautiful! It’s a covenant and should be used as one. Gods kingdom doesn’t shy away from sex, it celebrates it! I’ve been believing lies and had a twisted vision of love and sex. I always believed that having a healthy sex life was a natural part of life. C’mon. It’s terrible. It’s lonely and numb. I always knew sex for pleasure before marriage was wrong especially at a high volume deep down. Wrong. I never had a way to steward my thoughts on love and sex. It all sets in the more and more you get this in your head. The truth! C’mon! I’ve always had no idea how to view this life before giving it back to God. So much unknown about lust, master bating, and sex before marriage and so much more. I always knew my life would never be complete looking for something I can’t make whole. I listened to a podcast by Levi Lusko, in that he states 36% of online imagery is lustful or can be linked psychologically to a lustful way of thinking. Master bating brings on lustful thinking. Yeah it’s hard not to but, hey c’mon save it for your future wife or your Husband. It’s a struggle and God is forgiving. It’s hard but imagine the worth of waiting. It’s said to be that the average teen watches over 50 clips of porn a week. Sex is just as enslaving as Heroin. C’mon. Temptations are never going to go away and never will. Temptation is not a sin, sitting and dwelling on it is absolutely lustful and wrong. Think about it. Self control before marriage leads to self control after marriage. Woman have beauty and that is just an appearance. It’s awesome that we walk around with such stunning beautiful woman. Men have the same impact of women. Men! Let’s be gentlemen. Show woman what they deserve. C’mon. A generation can be brought back to life! C’mon. It’s hard but, hard things for a reason. Loving God should in my opinion be the new trend. It’s a change from the natural opposition of life today. You can change even if your deep, I can tell you that. I pray all the time that my virginity is reset. I heard of God healing woman’s hymen. Temptation roars but you have to roar even louder and not let satan hide what God has in store. God doesn’t want us to be lonely at all. He wants us to be loved and love. God will put someone in your path in right timing and prayers help in your seeking. A relationship that’s not honoring God is worthless to me. It’s not even a evangelical conversation I wouldn’t even want someone who isn’t one with God. God needs to change her to have a new kind of love enter her life first. I believe Gods got a fairytale waiting in store for me and in his right timing it’ll happen. This life is to beautiful not to show appreciation. I’ll never be right with anyone in relationship till I’m right with my maker. C’mon let’s love each other!
Much love. Love you all!!
