Ben went to our parents’ house to get my Dad’s floor jack so we could change the tire. Meanwhile I started figuring out how to get the spare tire out from under the bed of the truck. I was about half way through this task when a big white pickup with “Road Ranger” painted on the door pulled up behind me. A man in his early thirties got out and asked if I was OK, and jumped right in to help. He told me to start loosening the lugnuts as he got out his super-mega-jack brushing the small unit that came with my car aside.
I labored for a while on the first lugnut. Once I got it, the friendly Road Ranger said, “Here let me show you a trick so you don’t break your back.” He positioned the lug-wrench so he could step on it with his foot to loosen the nut. Once we got the shredded tire off, I stepped in like the man who needed no help (although I had obviously needed it) and tried to place the spare tire on the axle. I had some trouble and gingerly surrendered the tire to my Ranger friend. He used a cool Road Ranger trick and had the tire on in seconds. Then he screwed on four lugnuts in the time I did one.
After the whole ordeal was wrapped up (my friend helped me so fast that Ben never even had to find me on the side of the road), I thanked the Road Ranger as sincerely as I could, extended my hand for the shaking, said my name was Jacob and asked him his. He said, “Call me Poocho.”
I loved the way Poocho helped me. He stopped of his own volition, he never made me ask for help. When I jumped up to help myself he let me go ahead, and only after I made it painfully apparent that I needed assistance did he offer it, and in such a way that I never lost my manly, tire-changing dignity. Poocho brightened my day. I hope I get to help someone some day and that when I do I’ll have the grace to help in such a way that maybe, just maybe, that person that I help will “call me Poocho”.