Erin and I have chosen to live in Colorado Springs and sit under some of our mentors in life; Gary and Lisa Black. Gary Black who led a ministry by the name of Rock the Nations in years past is now one of the spiritual coverings for the World Race. The Blog below is posted from Seth Barnes and describes what Gary talks about as a fatherless generation.
Fatherlessness is a plague in America is rampant. Kids grow up without their dads or in broken homes and families. As a result, young people are insecure and unprotected. That is why I believe so much in the call to be a spiritual father and to turn the “hearts of the children back to the fathers.” Here’s some more on spiritual fathering from Seth Barnes, who is partnering with me in Africa right now where a generation of children have been abandoned by their parents, many of which have lost their lives to AIDS.
We who have raised children and who follow Jesus need to respond to this crisis of fatherlessness. We have a moral obligation to give out of our abundance to those who feel orphaned. Having raised five kids, I have a burden for those who at their core feel abandoned by their fathers. I think about the subject and write about it all the time (see these blogs).
God’s heart breaks for orphans of all shapes and sizes and he has chosen people like you and me as his instrument to give them the love they yearn for. Deuteronomy 10:18 says, “He defends the cause of the fatherless and the widow.” Psalm 68:5 says he is a “Father to the fatherless, a defender of widows.” Psalm 82:3 tells us to “defend the cause of the weak and fatherless.”
So many of society’s problems can be traced back to this issue of an absentee dad. Where do psychopaths come from? Usually there is a derelict father who has split the scene, leaving deeply wounded children. Interview a group of prison inmates and ask how many of them had good, loving fathers. And the cycle continues: by virtue of their absence from the home (sitting there in their cell), the generational curse is passed on to their sons and daughters abandoned by their daddy. It’s a tragedy that cries out for fathers who follow Jesus to intervene.
Those of us who have been blessed with fathers need to commit ourselves to fill the emotional gaps in the next generation. In the interview below, my friend and covenant brother, Gary Black, describes the essence of spiritual fathering and mothering: We serve our kids and help them get to greatness.
