I debated between that title and “A World Blinded By Lust”….it was a tough choice. Anyways, before I get into this blog, I’d like to share something from the past month. I’ve found through different ways that I “supposedly” might have this Gift called Exhortation. I didn’t know there was such a Gift from the Holy Spirit. What it means is that I basically feel important for myself to call people to greatness through God, and to literally tell people things they might not want to hear or what they Need to hear to become a Better Child of Christ.
With that being said, it’s Valentines Day in case you’re not able to see all the stupid commercials, signs, people talking about it, and other possible ways. I feel that the World takes this could be innocent “holiday” and turn it around at people. I feel that people who are without some special “someone” feels an added pressure that you aren’t with someone, then something is wrong with you.
Why the heck do people Date? It’s a really good question. I feel that people date for several reasons, but the most important is that you’re seeing if you could possibly spend the rest of your life with whomever. For me, I’ve never really dated anyone…ever, and over the years it’s been tough. I can’t lie. Why would someone want to listen to what I have to say about dating? Well, I’ve observed tons of relationships from my friends. I’ve seen which ones work and don’t work. I’ve seen how both people act in the relationships and how that affects the couple. I’m an observant person.
People should date those who they are very certain they could possibly marry. Dating someone for fun and to fill a void in their life is Not Good. A very good friend of mine said this “the worse thing one can do in a dating relationship and they want it to work is to have sex…it Screws up the Whole Thing”. That’s the Thing nowadays. The WORLD is telling us that dating and relationships is a little intimacy and a Lot of Sex. It’s Pathetic. No wonder there’s so many divorces, because the couple realize that who they married isn’t really the best person for them and possibly married just for sex, money, or some other stupid reason.
Calling out the men again. If you want to be a Man in a relationship, then take the responsibility of deciding what’s right and wrong for the 2 of you. You men who tempt the woman you’re dating to have sex by saying “I Love You” or some other “gateway” line is pathetic. You are Weak. If you Really Love Her, you’d Wait and see where the relationship goes Without Sex. You’d be a man and Wait till marriage.
Yea people in this world don’t see anything wrong with having sex before marriage. Why? Because they’re thinking with a Worldly Mind. If you’re a Christian Man and you’re Still having Sex while single. God will have Judgment on you. It makes me SICK. It makes me infuriated with a rage that comes from God, because I am tired of seeing Men FALL in this screwed up World and they claim to be a Christian.
If you want to be a Real Man, you treat women with Respect, Honor, Dignity, and Class. Stop talking Bad about them, Stop making threats to them, or even daring to Hit the woman you’re with. If you do, You are a Coward. What Kind of man Intimidates a Woman?! An Idiot. You guys who keep going in and out of a relationship with a specific girl, you need to leave her alone for good. Enough is Enough. You’re causing her so much heartache it’s unhealthy.
If what I say makes you aggravated. Good. Take that anger you might have toward me and take it to God in repentance. I want you to listen to this message off this link. Please, I ask for you guys to Really Listen to it. I agree 100% with everything he says and more. All the things he says are the same things I’ve been thinking over several months. You might remember a few of my other blogs where I Call People out. This is from the same mentality along with this sermon.
http://www.marshillchurch.org/media/trial/marriage-and-men
I also pray that the pastors and people who give messages similar to this take a Strong Stand and Say What needs to be said and not “beat around the Bush” and say this in a nice way. I’m done with talking about things like this in a Nice way…It’s time to Get Real.
