We often talk about trust and safety and how these two aspects are the main ingredients to building a strong community. I have to be honest when I tell you that these aspects have not always been so strong here at the ComLife house. It’s hard to take a leap of faith, be vulnerable, and trust the people God’s given you to live life alongside. We have to constantly check ourselves and ask if we are a safe place for one another. It’s a constant question on my mind-am I a trustworthy and safe person for the people here in my community?
While I struggle with these questions, I think there is a person within our group who has a pretty good handle on these things. Not to say she’s perfect or isn’t asking these questions right alongside us all, I just have to admit that she seems to have this trust and safety thing pretty down pat. She’s constantly asking people how they’re doing and, get this, she actually cares! J
Shaye Cornell is a person who knows how to love well and she’s been intentional with all the members of our community, although she’s one of the new arrivals and has only been here about two months. I can say without qualms that she fits in really well with our group. She’s easy-going and adapts well to different personalities and situations. You always know that Shaye’s heart goes out to each person in the group. I think this is my favorite quality about her. She knows what’s up with people; she can easily read between the lines. She hears what you’re not saying and is sensitive and gentle enough to be there for you when you need a little prodding. (I know from experience! J)
I appreciate that she’s always willing for just about anything…and you’ll hear that phrase come from her lips often, “I’m not sure about this, but I’m willing to try.” I love that teachable heart I see in her. She wants God’s best for her life and she’s willing to plug along even through the hard stuff to be more refined. I think she’s shining brighter even after two months…who knows what will happen at the end of eleven?
To top off her awesome qualities, Shaye is always good for a laugh. She’s got an infectious smile, killer dance moves, and the funniest faces I’ve seen in photos in a while. The girl cracks me up, puts me at ease in her presence, and is a joy to be around. I’m thrilled to know her and have her in my life for this season. Welcome to community friend. I love you. J
(my favorite part about this blog is knowing I’ll get mad props for making a creative title! J just for you girl!!)
