It's so true how we go about our daily lives, acting how we "normally" act, and all in the midst of busy times we forget that people are watching us. At the same time, we're watching and reading other people's actions, tone, and presence without even realizing it. It's almost automatically drilled into our mentality and thinking as humans. I say almost, because sometimes, like now, we make ourselves aware of…what we do? Self-actualization.
I share this snippet in a time when I am still hungry and eager to go out, be with people, and bless them with all the stored wisdom and knowledge I have gained from over the years. It's not a problem of "I don't know what to say since there's nothing there", but rather "there's so much to share with you I don't know where to start". When one is able to refine and share their thoughts eloquently and efficienctly at the needed moments, then you're doing just fine and dandy.
I find myself in a lot of part-time jobs and activities chomping at the bit to "take over the world". Yes, I still and always will see myself as a "world-changer". Yet, God keeps telling me to hold on, slow down, and wait to the whole "what's next" stage in life. Great. So in the meantime, I have be apart of society somehow. I substitute teach, teach tennis, and volunteer at a local Boys & Girls Club. All 3 are opportunties with great interaction with kids.
They are a joy. I can't help but smile when I walk on the court or classroom and seeing those kids.
Unfortunately, we don't give 1 minute to tell someone how we appreciate their presence and words of influence as often as needed. When able to do so, it's time well spent.
Kids, they'll tell you in a heart-beat if they're happy or unhappy about you. They don't really cover their feelings up. I like it. Kid's also let you know if they like you by hugs. Yes, hugs and bolts of excitement in their voices! Why do we grow out of this? Hugs are awesome! Hand shakes are just…okay. I sometimes get really excited about something, my voice gets higher than usual, and then people make fun of me for it? What's wrong with you guys? Why can't somebody be excited about something without another person raining on their parade?
I don't even know what I do while having a kid under my realm of authority for 1 day that makes them like me. 2 weeks later, they still remember me and want to give me a hug or fist-pound. What? I'm awesome? Thanks kid, you too!
At the end of the day, I do have to be content with where I'm at and enjoy loving on kids. Even if they tell me they think the lesson or activity is "lame".
So, wherever you're at and interacting with, people do deeply appreciate your presence and input. Don't forget it. Don't get down on yourself. You may find yourself with businessmen, kids, administrators, janitors, co-workers, friends, or even homeless people on the streets. Love on them as much as you possibly can. In the end, keep moving forward and being awesome while unaware of it.
I know this blog can come off as a cheesy/pick-me-up/motivation type deal. Well, yes it is. We all need one from time to time.
