Our squad leader Jacob gave me one of the best books I have read in the last five years called “Friendship at the Margins” written by some of the founders of a group called World Made Flesh that seeks to build community and friendship alongside the poorest of the poor in society. It talks about a model of missions that includes: relationship, friendship, and reconciliation. I want to be clear about something. What I am on right now is a short term mission. Eleven months of ministry is short term. A month in each country is short term. But I am trying to resist the messages our culture has sent that “more is better and new is best.” Getting rid of comforts is a step in the process for me. “Friends who are poor challenge our lifestyle of consumption when they build generous and gracious lives out of very few material resources. Doing advocacy without knowing any of the people for whom you advocate leads to a sterile and distanced kind of helping. It’s not what ‘we’ do for ‘them,’ but an opportunity for all of us to be enveloped in God’s grace and mercy. In God’s economy, its less clear who is donor and who is recipient because all are blessed when needs are met and when individuals receive care.” I am learning more of what community means as I live with five other people that I no longer call strangers but call family and trust with all my heart.
John 17:21-23 states, “So that they may be one, as we are one, so that the world may know that you have sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.”
I am reminding my team that we don’t do acts of service for a pat on the back or a thank you. We do service because faith without deeds is dead. “Gratitude is directly related to service, but if we minister with hope of being thanked or with the expectation that those receive our help will be grateful, we will not be in a good position to respond when they are not. Life-giving ministry flows from lives that are full of gratitude to God, not with the expectation of Gratitude from others. In community we can support one another, affirm contribution and yet also trust that our work is sustained by grace.”
