Leaving Aninuan at 6:00 on Wednesday morning was super hard for all of us.  We were definitely blessed by the family we were with and the relationships we built there. I have to tell you and story about one of the girls I met, Michele.  She is 25 years old and has a one year old little girl and has been married for about a year.  I noticed her the first Sunday during little kids’ Sunday school because she came in with her daughter, Geneva.  Every Sunday, I would find her and talk with her for a little bit.  The last Sunday, I wanted to make it a point to find her after church and tell her to come by on Tuesday so I could say goodbye.

But I couldn’t find her.  

As I was getting frustrated with not finding her, I felt God asking me if I trusted Him, even if I didn’t see her after church. Did I trust that He would put her back in my path?  

So I prayed about it and was confident I would see her again before we left.  Sure enough, that afternoon as we were going to shower in the river, she was walking towards us into town.  Now, she lives up in the mountain, thirty minutes from the pastor’s house, so her house is not close, but God brought her down so I could invite her to visit me on Tuesday.  

She was very excited and promised she would be there.

I waited for her all day on Tuesday and she finally came down around 2:00 that afternoon.  I gave her a hug and walked with her and her daughter down to the pastor’s house so we could have a place to talk.  She said she had walked all the way down to the pastor’s house on Monday because wanted to make me a bookmark that had my name on it, but she couldn’t remember my name.  Since we weren’t there, she made the bookmark, but it was the wrong name.  

However, this actually became a blessing in disguise.

She was quick to say ‘I’ll make another one tonight and bring it back in the morning.’  I told her that was very sweet, but we were leaving very early, and with the walk down, she didn’t need to do that.  She said, ‘Marina said you are leaving at six, I will be here at 5:30.”  So, we sat down and talked for about an hour, and I learned a lot about her life.  

But one thing she told me didn’t really sit right with me.  
 

 

She told she makes bracelets for Threads of Hope, but she might be leaving in February to go to Malaysia to be a domestic helper.  She would have a contract for two years and would have to leave her daughter and husband.  She wants to go so that she can make more money for her daughter to go to school.  I asked a few questions about it, but moved on to other conversation.  We talked for a while longer, and then she left with promises to be back early the next morning.

I went inside to talk to Julie and Jessica about my conversation, and Jessica raised the concern that she would be skeptical of a two year contract like that because that is how girls get into forced prostitution or become sex slaves.  

My stomach dropped.  WHAT?  

Could that really happen to someone I know and have become friends with?  Why didn’t I think of that when I was talking to her and say she shouldn’t do it?  So I had a mini anxiety attack about the reality and seriousness of the situation until I talked to Dustin and he helped me realize that my responsibility is to pray protection over her and that’s all I could do. 
 
So I did, but I still had one more opportunity to see her…